HE CANT’T BREATH!!!!

So I have MIA for a minute but I have been quite busy and being mummy. So Jerome has been having a rough few weeks, about 2 weeks ago i was called by the school that he was not feeling well and he could not breath!! now imagine hearing your baby could not breath!. ( prior to this about 3 weeks before he had a cold and was really stuffy to the point where he could not breath without waking himself up so I decided to sleep with him so I could keep an eye on him. I have never used albos and vicks in one night so much lol) So I rushed to pick him up and bless his little self his stomach and chest were literally moving up and down so much because he could not  breath and was struggling so I called the doctor to get an emergency appointment and to my surprise ( thinking about it now I was not surprised) they told me the next appointment they could give me was in 2 hours time!!! I was so pissed!!! I told them the boy cant breath and you want me to wait two hours??? i was so angry. At this point I called Steve to let him know whats going on and he left work to come with us to hospital.

So instead of waiting for my son to get worse I took him to A&E luckily it was not busy when we went in so they saw him quickly. They checked him and they said he might have asthma! or a viral infection, so they put him on a pump and oxygen to help him breath which started to help him. We were there for about 3 hours so Steve left to go pick up Faith form school. when we got discharged he was a lot better but you could still hear his breathing was raspy so they gave us a pump to use at home and was told to make an appointment to see our usual doctor for him to be diagnosed! which I felt was just one of the stupidest ideas, we were in a hospital!! why could they not diagnose him there??? anyway we went doctors and they said the same thing as the hospital that they thought it was asthma or viral infection (well duh tell me something new).

The doctor gave him antibiotic tablets to take for 3 days and a breath tester to see how strong his breathing is and we have been using that for the last few weeks and he seems to be back to normal ( thank God!). Motherhood can be so hard and scary but his on the mend. ­čÖé

Love Me X

 

MAKING TIME

So a week ago it was my closest friend’s birthday, me and hubby and a few of her friends went out for a meal. I had not gone out for a meal in a while and I took the time to glam up! (yasssss hunny)

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It was one of the best nights out I have had in a while and it wasn’t because we went clubbing or anything, its just we were able to chill and enjoy each others company and crack jokes lol. After dinner we all went back to my friends house and just chilled and had some music on and just had a fun filled evening. I honestly prefer this kind of night in or out now days instead of going clubbing, so maybe this make me old or that I have grown up but I really enjoyed myself.

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We also went without the children which does not happen often!. I actually do not remember the last time me and hubby went out without our the children. I am one of them parents who feel guilty if I go out without my children, I don’t know why but I feel like they should always come out with us as we had them and they are our responsibility ┬á( I know guys my thinking is crazy but let me know what you think and if your like me or not lol). But we had fun and we need to have more time for us as we have just got into a routine where we don’t have time for us because having kids can be draining and your so busy getting them to their activities that you forget about yourself and your partner.20160910_001709

So the moral of the story is, make time for you and your partner or just for you because we all need a  break soon or later.

Love Me X