The fear of failure is something we all experience sometimes in our lives and it’s something non of us want to experience but we don’t get to chose if we get it or not, no matter how much we try and fight it if it’s going to happen it will happen.
If you fail sometime in your life whether it’s once or 100 times you have to remember to get back up and try again. You have to give yourself time to moan that failure, cry over it and figure out where you wenvt wrong then get back up and push on.
Failure is apart of life and it’s something we work hard to never experience but it’s there to stop us if we are about to make a mistake and it forces us to start again. We will never understand failure in the beginning because we are so angry and upset but when we succeed and look back we are thankful for that failure because it taught us something.
During my university studies I failed one of my modules and I had to do it all over again before continuing to my second year. It was an exam and I am so rubbish at revising as I can’t seem to be able to recall what I have crammed so when I had to resit it I had to attend class all over again and I was so angry as it was holiday time.
But what surprised me is that
Achievements can be seen differently by different individuals. Some people see achievements as graduating university others see achievements as being able to get through the day.
We all are different and go through different struggles in life but we need to remember to not belittle ones achievements because we don’t know what they had to go through to get to that happy point.
It is perfectly fine to be used to celebrating the big things that happen in life because thats what we are used to but we need to celebrate the small things too. For me I celebrate when am able to go to bed and all my house work is done, I know it might sound silly but I pride myself in leaving my house clean ready for the next day. I also celebrate when am able to cook a meal for my family because having 6 months old twins that need attention and trying to cook is a task in itself, but am able to do it sometimes other times I can’t.
Being able to make an Instagram post everyday make’s me happy because that’s the goal I set myself as well as publishing a blog post 2 or 3 times a week, sometimes I don’t post at all which makes me angry with myself but sometimes I can’t because there are other things going on in my life that come first before the blog.
We need to be able to celebrate our families and friend’s achievements no matter how small or big they are, if they feel it’s an achievement then it’s an achievement because they know what they had to go through, we should not try to question or understand their reasoning because that can cause them to feel insecure and question their achievements.
So let’s all celebrate our achievements, big ones and especially the small ones because those small ones can mean the most to us with out realising.
What have you achieved today? Let me know in the comment section below.
Love Me x